Yippeee got my internet connection back. Its been a long two weeks in which time I have not been able to work at all.
Due to not having a incall place or being able to promote myself online I decided that I would try a couple of shifts down a parlour and it’s not something I am going to try again. I resented the cut they took from me and was nervous regarding the legal side of things but I must say that I loved all the girls I met there and regret that I am not going to be meeting them again and it was reassuring knowing that there was someone there keeping an ear out for you when you are doing a service.
I also found that it was more of a service that was provided rather than an experience that you get with an escort and found it difficult to make the switch.
However the main reason I am writing about my work experience of a brothel is to try to resolve my thoughts on if they should be legalised. On the one side a decent parlour with a protective madam is good for the girls who want to work in the industry but do not like to do all the background work themselves. They just want to turn up for their shift, work and then go home again. It provides a safe environment and the cut they take is no more than what I need to pay in bills for an incall place and legalizing it will give the girls the piece of mind that they are not going to get busted.
On the other side of this though if brothels are legalised then they are going to be subjected to all the laws required in a normal work place and it doesn’t seem right that health and safety wombles are going in and out making sure they are no fire hazards. Part of the reason men see whores is because the taboo. The feeling of a illicit liaison which a girl who does all the things your wife doesn’t do for whatever reason. Will legalizing it make it less exhilarating then before?
For me I am seeing the sex industry change making it harder for whores to make a living. You can get NSA sex on many encounter websites, free porn online. Ok some guys still see the issues of having an affair rather than punting but will legalizing the industry be the final nail in the coffin for many girls working in this industry?
Right off my soap box and onto a but of house keeping. Yes I am working, no I am not offering incalls at the moment but hopefully at some point in the autumn I will be.
Kisses
Alana
